The parts that aren't picture-perfect Instagram moments? A new YouTube video from a mom just dropped a brutally honest take on "What No One Tells You About Breastfeeding," and GenzNewz is here to give you the unvarnished truth.

This isn't your grandma's advice; it's the raw, unfiltered reality.

1. The Pain is Real (Especially at First)

Forget the serene images – for many, the initial days (and sometimes weeks) of breastfeeding are painful. The video's creator describes it as "torture," from the initial latch feeling like a paper cut to the tenderness and soreness that follows. Your nipples are essentially going through a bootcamp they've never experienced before, and it can take time for them to toughen up. Don't feel like a failure if it hurts; it's a common experience.

2. Engorgement is a Vibe (A Painful One)

Your milk will come in, and sometimes it comes in with a vengeance. Engorgement means your breasts become incredibly full, hard, and often painful. The video creator talks about how hard her breasts became, and this can feel overwhelming. It's a sign your body is doing its job, but it's not comfortable. Hot showers, warm compresses, and gentle massage can help.

3. Nipple Issues Are Normal (Cracked, Bleeding, Oh My!)

No one preps you for the possibility of cracked, sore, or even bleeding nipples. This isn't just discomfort; it can be alarming. The video touches on the intense pain associated with this. Lanolin cream and proper latch techniques are often recommended, but sometimes it just takes time and perseverance.

4. "Cluster Feeding" Will Test Your Limits

Just when you think you've got a rhythm, your baby decides they need to feed constantly for hours on end – this is called cluster feeding. The creator mentions feeling like a "milk machine," and it can be incredibly draining, both physically and emotionally. It's normal for growth spurts or just because baby wants comfort, but be prepared to feel like you're permanently attached to the couch.

5. Leakage is Inevitable (Embrace the Pads!)

Your breasts don't have an off-switch, especially in the early days. Expect random leaks, especially when you hear a baby cry (not even your baby!), when you're thinking about feeding, or when it's been a while. The video mentions the surprise of waking up soaked. Breast pads are your new best friend.

6. It's a Full-Time Job (Forget Your Old Schedule)

Breastfeeding demands a massive amount of time and energy. It's not just the feeding sessions themselves, but the pumping, cleaning parts, and managing supply. The creator highlights how much of her day was consumed by it, impacting her ability to do other things. Flexibility and patience are key.

The video's creator shares that despite all these challenges, she ultimately found the experience rewarding and was glad she stuck with it. However, her raw honesty is a powerful reminder that breastfeeding is a journey filled with highs and lows, triumphs and tears.

The biggest takeaway for Gen Z? Educate yourself on the realities, build a strong support system, and be kind to yourself. Whether you choose to breastfeed, pump, formula-feed, or a combination, the most important thing is a fed baby and a supported, sane parent.